I'm grateful it resonated. It's so weird how that works. I literally almost cancelled the scheduled publishing of this post twice because it felt too vulnerable to share. Funny how those are the ones people sometimes click with the most. I hope you are doing well friend.
What social media has shown me more than anything else, is how often so many people want to *feel validated* without actually giving the attention and effort needed to really *be right* about anything.
It's never my goal in publishing to make people feel validated. So when they're not, it worked! 🤣
Me neither but I was referencing humans in real life. Often when people are either trying to fill a void or are in some sort of dire straits themselves, they'll try to latch onto you to fix their problem. They're out for the resources they assume you have.
It's one thing to lend an ear or helping hand, but when it comes from people I really don't have a close relationship with plus I'm in a place in life where I'm barely making it through each day, I am soooo not available for that bullshit. It's really bizarre. It's like they don't even see you, they just want to consume you. I've noticed it a lot lately, so that's why I vented about it.
I related to your post about mystery illness. Please find the Medical Medium website books and Instagram channel. There's a community of us healing from the symptoms like yours that the doctors cannot cure. I'm healing my fibromyalgia & CFS. See medicalmedium.com for information. You will find a community of others who have healed so many symptoms on Instagram. There's no fees or cost for all the information he shares.
thank you i will look into it — even if virtual, it’d be nice to have community of other humans that know what this shit is like because it’s truly not comprehensible unless you’re in it. thank you again.
you are absolutely correct. the survival eyes… lord. yeah, they are there to make sure we don’t die, but they will perceive most things as a threat. in many cases they are accurate but…. in many they are not. hard to see which is which until the season of storms have passed. thank you friend. I hope you are right. I am starting to run out of fight. much love to you.
Intensely accurate.
thank you for reading ♥️
Insanely accurate
I'm grateful it resonated. It's so weird how that works. I literally almost cancelled the scheduled publishing of this post twice because it felt too vulnerable to share. Funny how those are the ones people sometimes click with the most. I hope you are doing well friend.
I hope you are doing well also!
> i am not your ticket out of
the grave you dug for yourself.
What social media has shown me more than anything else, is how often so many people want to *feel validated* without actually giving the attention and effort needed to really *be right* about anything.
It's never my goal in publishing to make people feel validated. So when they're not, it worked! 🤣
Me neither but I was referencing humans in real life. Often when people are either trying to fill a void or are in some sort of dire straits themselves, they'll try to latch onto you to fix their problem. They're out for the resources they assume you have.
It's one thing to lend an ear or helping hand, but when it comes from people I really don't have a close relationship with plus I'm in a place in life where I'm barely making it through each day, I am soooo not available for that bullshit. It's really bizarre. It's like they don't even see you, they just want to consume you. I've noticed it a lot lately, so that's why I vented about it.
I related to your post about mystery illness. Please find the Medical Medium website books and Instagram channel. There's a community of us healing from the symptoms like yours that the doctors cannot cure. I'm healing my fibromyalgia & CFS. See medicalmedium.com for information. You will find a community of others who have healed so many symptoms on Instagram. There's no fees or cost for all the information he shares.
thank you i will look into it — even if virtual, it’d be nice to have community of other humans that know what this shit is like because it’s truly not comprehensible unless you’re in it. thank you again.
Sending love in the only ways I know how.
thank you and God bless you. it is felt. 🙏 and i appreciate tf out of you.
you are absolutely correct. the survival eyes… lord. yeah, they are there to make sure we don’t die, but they will perceive most things as a threat. in many cases they are accurate but…. in many they are not. hard to see which is which until the season of storms have passed. thank you friend. I hope you are right. I am starting to run out of fight. much love to you.
it feels like the latter but i'm holding onto hope that it's the former. Thank you. 💜